THE AUSTRALIAN sex work industry has fought back against
claims that most sex workers are abused and forced to enter the industry
against their own will.
The hashtag #FacesOfProstitution started trending on social media on
Monday, as hundreds of sex workers here and around the world shared positive
images and stories from their industry.
On Friday,
women’s website Mamamia republished a blog post from Exodus
Cry, which argues the film Pretty Woman glorifies
prostitution and “lured [women] into the sex industry by leading them to
believe that prostitution was glamorous and romantic.”
The article,
entitled ‘The tragic reality behind the inspiration for Pretty Woman’, also
claims 75 per cent of women in prostitution have been raped, 95 per cent have
been “seriously abused and battered”, 68 per cent “suffer from post traumatic
stress disorder” and most enter the industry after being sexually abused as
children.
None of these
statistics are attributed to an official source.
In
response to the Mamamia article,
Sydney sex worker Tilly Lawless started the #FacesOfProstitution hashtag on
Sunday.
“Roberts’
‘toothy smile is not the true face of prostitution’ because all sex workers are
drug-addled victims & Pretty Woman is
a damaging film that leads girls into a life of abuse. There is no singular
story or person to represent the varied and complex experiences of all sex
workers, but here is one face of prostitution among a myriad,” Lawless posted on Instagram, accompanied with a photo of herself.
Lucie Bee* is a
Sydney-based escort who has been in the industry for five years and defended
her profession via the #FacesOfProstitution hashtag on Monday.
The 25-year-old
says she loves her job. “It’s my choice to be here,” she toldnews.com.au.
“The prevailing
attitude regarding sex work in Australia is this doom and gloom type scenario.
“People don’t
understand how you could possibly go into the industry by choice. They say ‘How
could you do this? How could you interact on this level with people you don’t
know?’ It implies we don’t have any agency over our minds and bodies.”
Lucie
says she understands not all sex workers are as fortunate.
“As soon as
someone like me comes out and says, ‘My experience is good’, we’re accused of
trying to deny that these negative things do happen. We’re not at all.
“I’d be lying if
I said to some degree if I didn’t understand the concern. We do face risk in
our day-to-day lives that others don’t. And there are some women who do have
bad experiences.”
Jackie Parker*,
from Griffith in NSW, also defended her industry on Twitter. The 36-year-old
has worked in brothels, massage parlours and as an escort.
“I’ve been in
the industry for 14 years and I’ve never met someone who was forced into this
job,” she said.
“The peple who
are doing it tough make up a small percentage — that is not the norm for sex
work in Australia.
“If you look at
the faces of the women on the Twitter hashtag, we’re all smiling. Implying we
are victims is condescending and makes us feel like we don’t have a voice. It
makes me feel like I’m not living the right stereotype and it’s really harmful.
“I’ve never had
an STI, I’ve only had to call the police once in 14 years. I’m treated with
respect and like a normal person.”
Christian
Vega is a male sex worker from Tasmania. The 32-year-old says the discussion
over whether or not sex workers choose to enter the industry is based on the
perception that sex work is fundamentally different to other forms of work.
“Nobody asks,
‘Did you choose to become a truck driver or a janitor or did you just fall into
that job?’ They’re not examined with the same scrutiny that sex work is. Sex
workers are just normal members of the community.
“When people say
things like, ‘Sex workers need to be rescued’ or ‘They don’t choose that career
path’ or ‘Sex workers do lots of drugs’, then legislators start overreacting
and start to make decisions that impact all sex workers.”
Lucie
says stigmatising the industry only makes it harder for sex workers to come
forward to police when bad things do happen.
“When people
send the industry further underground, we lose the capacity to stay connected
with women who do need help and track down people who are doing the wrong thing
and combat sex trafficking.
“It makes it
less likely for victims to come forward or for them to be treated fairly by the
justice system. These women need support. They feel bad enough already without
feeling like society has turned its back on them.”
A spokeswoman
from the Victorian Sex Workers Organisation, Jane Green, says the conversation
around the sex work should always involve actually talking to sex workers.
“When you’re
talking about other people’s lives and you don’t have knowledge of those
people’s lives, it can turn into pity-porn. It’s unhelpful and it’s putting us
inside a box.”
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